I contracted Herpes from a female in my past.?
You have to practice your No switch. You dont have to buy into your spouses marriage conditions. The fear is that she will get mad at you if you dont agree with her bullshit conditions for as having your phone and monitoring you. She is your wife. Not your parole officer. You have to practice your NO switch if it is going to make you unhappy. You are not being a bad husband or suspicious because you refuse to comply with her demands. This is the main reason for resentment in marriage which soon leads to divorce.